The Situation
You are one of hundreds of portrait/wedding photographers in your area. Price-wise, you’re in that middle range. You average $500 for a portrait session and $2,500 for a wedding. You’ve got an attractive, clean, well-designed website. Your portfolio is diverse and well executed. Your images are properly exposed and sharp. Your friends tell you that you do beautiful work.
So why do you only command $2,500 per wedding and even at that price really struggle to get booked? How come the couples you meet seem focused like a laser beam on price and not your images?
The problem is this: It’s not too hard these days to show a portfolio of professionally-executed images. Modern DSLRs make it pretty difficult to take a poorly exposed, out of focus shot. Everyone’s got access to the same inexpensive template websites, the same Photoshop actions, the same gear and the same workshops. You are adrift in a sea of same-ness. You don’t look particularly different than anyone else. If that’s the case, then like any commodity it becomes all about price, and you get stuck in that middle-range and have difficulty breaking out.
On the other hand, if you floated above that sea of sameness on a totally different boat, then you might have very few competitors – maybe none. NONE.
What do Ed Pingol, Elizabeth Messina and Jeff Ascough have in common? Yes, they are all successful wedding photographers, but what else? The answer is that they each have a clearly recognizable style. Make a single print from each of their portfolios and you’d be able to match them up with the correct photographer in about 2 seconds.
If you want that hyper-dramatic look, Ed has very few competitors. If you want soft, warm and pretty, go to Elizabeth. And if you want a collection of decisive moments that looks like it could have been taken by HCB, then you’ll want Jeff. The bride that hires one of these photographers does so for their style, not because they’re $200 cheaper than the next photographer.
Do you know who Bill Sorenson is? Take a look at his website. I guarantee you than 90% of the readers of this blog probably hate his style. Well, get over it, because Bill Sorenson is probably the most successful portrait photographer in America. He was the first photographer to break the $100 price for an 8×10 – and he did it over 30 years ago! Today he earns 7 figures per year from his studio in Portland, OR. His earnings dwarf that of all those hotshot rock-star wedding photographers in southern California. Why? Two reasons: (1) he’s a great marketer and salesman, and (2) he shoots in a style that’s very rarely seen anymore in this country, making him unique. If you want that very traditional look – you know, the little boy dressed in a sailor suit in front of a canvas backdrop painted to look like an old oil painting – then nobody does it better than Bill. Hell, nobody but Bill does it at all! Everyone else is out on the beach shooting “lifestyle” family sessions and working a half day to earn $400 while Bill’s 20 minute session in his studio earns him $4,200. By the way, Bill shoots medium format film on a Mamiya RZ. It’s all part of his “old world craftsmanship” schtick.
Try this exercise
Invite at least 10 friends to a dinner party. Tell them you will feed them a great meal in exchange for a little help with your portfolio. Prior to the party, make thirty 5×7 prints that best represent your current portfolio. These are the images that are most likely already on your website. This should cost you less than $20. Just make the prints at Costco or the corner drugstore.

Lay the prints out on a table and have your friends look at them closely. Give each person an index card and have them describe your style in writing. Make sure you tell them not to write a description designed to please you. The point of the exercise is for them to genuinely describe what they feel when they see your images as a body of work. After you collect the cards just enjoy the rest of the evening.
Over the next week, read and re-read the cards and think about them. Don’t do this while you’re in front of your computer and doing a dozen other tasks. Go to a coffee shop, find a comfy chair and just focus on the cards.
Now here’s the most important question: are the responses consistent? Do some friends describe your work as soft, pretty and emotional while others describe it as cool, dramatic and edgy? Do some describe your images as “joyful” while others describe them as “intense”? If the descriptions are all over the map, then you’re probably one of the photographers I described in the first paragraph of this post. Was this exercise really difficult for them? Did they have to reach down deep to even come up with any sort of description?
I hope I’ve convinced you that the key to breaking out of that middle price range is to have a clearly recognizable style (of course, it goes without saying that the style has to be well-executed). A mish-mash of well-executed images with no discernible style means you’re part of the collective, and thus you’ll earn the collective (average) price.
Okay, so now what?
The next thing to do is to ask yourself the following question: what style of shooting would you do if you weren’t getting paid? If you were an amateur photographer who was just out shooting for fun? What style of photography has the greatest gravitational pull on you? Is it soft and pretty? Cool and edgy? Emotionally engaged? Emotionally detached? Images that seek out the ironic and absurd? Documentary style black and white? Lesbian vampire weddings? Whatever floats your boat.
Let’s say, for example, that you really love the soft and pretty, Martha Stewart Wedding look. Fine.
- Step 1: Go through your current portfolio and eliminate as many images as you can that contradict this style. For example, one image I’ve seen so often it hurts my eyeballs is the “toy soldier” image. You know, the bride and groom standing there very rigidly like toy soldiers, no expression on their faces, taken with a tilt-shift. This image is the antithesis of soft and pretty, so eliminate it! That ultra-cool fashion image of your bride with off-camera lighting in front of the castle ruins? Gone! Eliminate all the images that don’t say “soft and pretty”.
- Step 2: Go through your library of images – one wedding at a time – and search out those soft and pretty images that you may have overlooked in the past. I’m sure you’ll be able to find some to add to your new portfolio. You may need to rework the post processing of some of your images – remove the dramatic actions and vignettes, reduce the contrast a little, warm up the white balance, etc.
- Step 3: On your future weddings shoot with deliberate intent. Your mantra: soft……pretty………soft……….pretty……. Lots of couples cuddling in soft light. Lots of foreheads touching with closed eyes. Couples strolling in wheat fields at sunset. Gentle post-processing with controlled (minimal) levels of contrast and sharpening. Well, at least that’s my interpretation of soft and pretty. I’m sure you’ll have your own, but you get the idea. Over time you’ll gradually rotate these new images into your website and you’ll have a portfolio that looks dramatically different than the other thousand wedding photographers in your town – most of whom lack any sort of consistent style.
- Step 4: Raise your prices and watch your calendar fill up because you’re now the only wedding photographer with a “soft and pretty” signature style in Bismarck, North Dakota!
What I need to do next is follow my own advice. My portfolio needs to be more focused. What gets me prices well above average is not my portfolio, it’s my business and selling skills (the other important part of the equation). If I had a more focused portfolio, then I’d be able to raise my prices even more. I’ll admit that differentiating myself from my competition is part of my motivation for shooting film again. In a world of 99% digital shooters, shooting film can be a significant point of differentiation (my other motivations being the exquisite skin tones, beautiful rendering, nearly zero post processing time and fun with experimenting with different cameras and films).
Resistance is NOT futile. Break from the collective.
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What a fantastic and sound article.... Gives me an idea for my upcoming rebrand (February 27, 2011 | 03:03pm)
Hi! I'm a relatively new blog reader, and I wanted to stop by and say THANK YOU for all of these great posts.... I always look forward to seeing new posts from you on my google feeder! I think this post is SPOT ON. Yup, I definitely need to work more on creating a consistent portfolio that will make me stand out from my peers. Oh, and allow me to charge more moolah ;-) Thanks again!!!! Noa (February 28, 2011 | 08:37am)
Excellent article. Going forward the industry is for creators ... not for imitators. (February 28, 2011 | 08:53am)
Great insight, and also a nice introduction to a few really interesting photographers - thanks. (February 28, 2011 | 09:22am)
Great advice Laurence! The dinner party exercise is an interesting suggestion (March 01, 2011 | 01:06am)
lesbian vampire weddings.. Nice! (March 07, 2011 | 12:22pm)
Great article with practical advice. Off to start implementing it! (March 08, 2011 | 08:03am)
Thanks so much for writing this! (March 17, 2011 | 08:05am)
Makes a lot of sense..you give a lot of good practical advice here. Thank you. (March 17, 2011 | 08:08am)
YES. YES. YES. This is exactly what I needed to hear. Super-sound amazing advice. Thank you. (March 21, 2011 | 07:11am)
love the site and tips, please keep them coming! (March 23, 2011 | 03:24pm)
Great photographer and a great writer. Thanks Laurence! (March 24, 2011 | 03:16pm)
EXCELLENT! SO HELPFUL! Thank you for writing this. I am so stuck right now in trying to figure out my style. This is very helpful. (April 28, 2011 | 09:10am)
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Thank you so much for sharing these great tips! I'm definitely going to try the friends and 5x7 portfolio critique. I too have been wanting to break away from the norm and have a recognizable style. (April 30, 2011 | 11:11am)
You nailed it with this one! This is very helpful and the timing is perfect. I've been slowly revamping my website, but you've given me the final piece of the puzzle. Thanks so much! (May 09, 2011 | 06:12am)
Interesting post. (May 18, 2011 | 11:57am)
I like the blog. Especially whence it cometh from: 'The American dream topic'. I became a photographer because it was a challenge to climb up a ladder of 'fame', just like any performing artist would. Style? Well, that is essentially a connection to ones naval ... its a matter of finding the tools which will allow one to execute a selfpleasing image at minimum cost. I do not think that commercial success has anything to do with my American dream. That one is a political reflection. Nothing wrong with that. I do appreciate your breakdown of how to manhandle it. French men's Vogue told me many years aga: ' Do only waht you want to do'. (Faire just comme tu veux) ... and they wouldn't have published any of my ideas, or even consired me as a serious photgrapher had I tried to please any mainstream market. This is not Blockbuster Hollywood. This is inspiring other people to make the bucks. When in the end ... its all differnt anyway. Inflation - market crash - but certain art becomes as good as standart gold. Why? - Politics! Sincerely, M.A.Russ (presently in Berlin) (May 27, 2011 | 01:34pm)
Only recently came across your site...Really Really great content here. Thankyou! (May 28, 2011 | 03:58am)
Insightful post. Having gone through your portfolio and read your other posts (i.e., photography for a living), I can say that I'm more interested in your writing than your photography :) Also thanks for sharing links to photographers' portfolios -- it's always great to learn about and from others' works. Speaking of being different and shooting film, take a look at the following photographer whose blog I follow: http://gexxx.livejournal.com/585640.html http://gexxx.livejournal.com/675113.html http://gexxx.livejournal.com/669122.html http://gexxx.livejournal.com/671332.html Sometimes he shoots both film and digital and one would have hard time telling the difference between the shots. This is what I call being unique. Cheers. (May 29, 2011 | 09:58am)
This is just so awesome. (June 10, 2011 | 09:57pm)
Thanks for your awesome articles. I head never read every word from any other wordy articles like this. But your article is captivating... I read every word of it. Thanks so much for sharing your thought! (September 23, 2011 | 06:17pm)
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Lawrence-- what a great article! I'm new to your blog and so appreciative of you sharing your knowledge & insight! (December 18, 2011 | 12:29pm)
Wow, this couldn't be more timely. This was just what I needed to focus my portfolio and stop playing the mid level price game. THANK YOU!!!!! (February 20, 2012 | 12:54am)
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